Communication is the way to understand others, and the way to continue life and live in a humane way, because man is a social and civil by nature, he tends to form many relationships with others of his kind, extending from peace and beyond place, it is necessary for man to find his goal in communication, because in many cases you cannot kill loneliness and alienation except by having someone with you, which is what is called the companion and friend who lifts the alienation or loneliness, this is one of the benefits of communication, and perhaps talking about the benefits of communication and building relationships in dozens of papers is not enough, and this is what every person feels its effect, so you find that you need a relative to whom you can complain about what is going on in your world or an outlet for your worries or a friend you take as a support for you or a teacher who cares for you or a teacher who raises you or a leader you follow, so there is a movement inside man and a point of light that pushes him to build relationships with different segments of society, so the civilized person needs a doctor, a farmer, an engineer, a teacher, a teacher, an author, a journalist, a media person, a scientist, a creator, an inventor, and whoever combines several qualities in his person, all of these names you need to communicate with, and the value and importance of communication differ, to a degree Your need for the person you are communicating with and the value he adds to you, and it does not mean that communication is for something material, as those public relations are intended, that is, you seek to have relationships that you are connected to with everyone, but what I want the reader to understand from the meaning: is communication in its general form without focusing on a specific detail, or another part, and how do you get the rules that benefit you in your communication with people, and you may ask: Are there rules that I can memorize or write down that benefit me in my communication with people? Yes, there are basic rules in communication, you can record them and keep them at the times you need them, but there are basic rules for dealing and communication, and other subsidiary rules depending on the type of person you are communicating with, as the noteworthy observation lies in knowing the origin of the art and then knowing the person you are communicating with, and your communication may be with institutions or companies and others, these also have very special drawings, and whoever enters these fields is more experienced than even the trainer himself, and therefore the focus will be on the art of communication and relationships in general and some necessary specificities.

 - Don't praise yourself too much

Praising yourself too much will make people hate you, but do you know why?

Because people like to hear words that benefit them, such as praising them and praising their country, village or clan, and as for your praising yourself, it does not fall within the circle of their interests, so the more you remain silent about praising yourself, the closer you become to them, and a person’s praising himself is not accepted repeatedly, unless it is to remove a grievance or clarify a certain situation for an important reason, otherwise, at all times, praising oneself is not acceptable, and talking about achievements and works everywhere is rejected, let people talk about you, and do not care much about what they say, as some sayings take you back from your goal and correct path, and often talk about yourself leads to negativity, so stay away from that as much as possible, and if you like to praise yourself, talk to yourself, as if you are listening to another person, then you will know how people are negatively affected when you talk about yourself, so when a person meets you for the first time, he remembers three things from you: the way you receive him, your talk to him, and your looks at him, and each of these things has its effect on him, but the effect of your talk with him in Very important, he wants you to care about him, where did you come from? How are things there? What is your level of education? Ask him questions that will make him feel your interest in him. Be sure that caring is what makes him visit you again, and talking about yourself is a big part of not caring about him, so do not let him run away from you from the first meeting. Make sure that affection, love and understanding are what prevail in the atmosphere of the meeting between you. It is necessary to limit yourself to praising the person you meet always, encouraging him and commending him with acceptable praise, not false praise, because words that come out of the tongue never enter the heart. There is a very important matter, which is that these methods mentioned in the book do not mean deception and camouflage to obtain the desired benefits, but rather they are correct methods that must be believed in before doing them. If you see one that contradicts reason or religion, reject it and do not give it any weight, because everything that contradicts reason and religion has no weight.