Which comes first: preaching or warning?!

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2024-03-26

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Is preaching considered to take precedence over warning as a behavioral pattern in our lives, so that we always meet others with what motivates them and support them with positive news, and hide or delay from them what disturbs their mood and makes them anxious and cautious?

There are mothers who direct their children to give warnings; as saying to her son: Beware of failing the exam, or warning her daughter: Beware of your level being below the full mark on the exam!

And so are fathers; it was as if he was saying to his son: Carry the tray of tea cups and be careful not to drop them?

There are mothers who motivate and speak with the logic of optimism and encouragement. It was as if she was saying to her daughter: If you succeed, I will give you the dress that you love!

Or she says to her son: I am confident that you will get a perfect score on the exam, because you are always excellent?!

Or the father says to his son: Carry the tea tray. You are my representative in honoring the guests!

The type of nutrition that a person receives from the educator, whether father, mother, or teacher, is the basis that will determine his way of life. Either he is pessimistic, inclined to be cautious, and spreading a culture of frustrating and frightening possibilities and anticipating negatives, or he is optimistic, spreading a culture of preaching, anticipating relief, and anticipating things positivity. ..

However, the causes of relaxation and contraction are not always possible for a person to control and change his mood easily!

This is why a person should have control over his feelings and emotions through two things:

The first: He must be organized in his life, have specific goals, and manage his time in an organized manner.

Second: To have a sound approach to searching for and revealing facts.

Chaos leads to a miserable life that only results in every negative possibility, and causes the individual to fall into the problems of neglecting rights and duties. Then his balance of expectations for the positive will be low, and only negative things will come to his mind that require caution, as well as the absence of a proper methodology in distinguishing what is right from what is wrong. Diagnosing truth from illusion and suspicions leads a person to fall into naivety of thinking and false convictions, and he will be the prey of those who control his emotions and feelings, so he will be affected by negative news and rush to investigate frightening incidents. Because the absence of a method in revealing matters makes the individual anxious and fearful, prompting him to be more cautious and alert.

Organizing your life and investigating the facts makes you deal with reality as it is given, and it may be consistent with your planning for your goals. If caution and warning are necessary, it has priority, and if optimism and preaching are necessary, then it is given priority. Both warnings and preaching are good for the successful individual.