How to be socially popular

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2024-01-16

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If you want to know the importance of “loving people” in your life, all you have to do is consider the state of people when they mention a person whom they have left due to travel or death. They show longing for him and love and wish for his presence among them. If you ask them about all this attraction and longing, what are the reasons for it, they will answer you that he is kind and has high morals, and we have seen nothing but good things from him... So the attraction of hearts does not come spontaneously without reasons, and one of the best reasons for it is that you do what benefits people and brings them happiness, so here are the lanterns on your way to being socially popular:

Be a magnet for hearts: People are attracted to a person who offers kindness to others and tries to help them and does not look for anything in return. Charity is the magnetic property that attracts hearts, and as it is said, “Man is the slave of charity.”
Be patient: Do not rush your reactions, as reactions resulting from emotion and tension create disharmony, but when you tolerate the abuse of others and deal with them in a kind manner, your loved ones will undoubtedly increase.
Use your conscience as a balance: Do not proceed with any word or action until you have weighed your behavior in the balance of conscience. Would you accept this for yourself? To please others? So that you will not be a reason for hurting the feelings of others, and then your loved ones will increase. Imam Ali (peace be upon him) said in his will to his son, Imam Hassan (peace be upon him): (Make yourself a balance between you and others, so love for others what you love for yourself.), and hate for others what you hate for yourself. And do not oppress, just as you do not like to be wronged.)
Be sweet in speech: A kind and gentle word has its magic in tickling the feelings, and the sweetness of your manner with others has a wonderful effect in attracting the hearts of those who are kind to them. Imam Ali (peace be upon him) said: “He who sweetens his tongue will have many brothers.”
Be cold water that warms the hearts with your generosity and comfort: Whoever you are like cold water to when he feels thirsty in the desert of problems will never forget you and will remember you with all goodness, so be a relief to the anxious and a relief from the distressed.
Stay away from criticism and blame: Hearts are alienated from harsh people and those with a dry nature in their style, and from all loudness and blame that are abundant in criticism and blame that do not care about the feelings of others, so avoid repulsive methods, choose your words, and stay away from criticism and blame, as they are a reason to stir up grudges and grudges.

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